The Bundling Bed
A common part of the Amish courtship is bed-sharing. Young couples have to spend a night in bed with one another, but there are specific restrictions set in place. Both people must remain fully clothed and sleep with a wooden board between the two. This makes sure there's no funny business before marriage.
Amish Weddings
Amish weddings are commonly held in November, which is the least busy month for the community since harvest season is over. Amish ceremonies can last up to four hours. There are no rings or kisses exchanges, no caterers or photographers, and definitely no DJ. This is usually a big celebration, though, and the entire community is invited.